你是不是也经历过：熬夜改了三版动机信，终于收到瑞士某校回复——结果是‘感谢关注，但我们无法录取’？
? 为什么一封‘拒后回信’反而能加分？
很多人以为被拒就该默默退场，但在瑞士高校圈，尤其是苏黎世联邦理工（ETH Zurich）这类强调‘沟通素养’的学校，一封得体的回信可能让你进入‘候补人才库’。
? 真实案例：去年一位同学被洛桑酒店管理学院（EHL）拒绝，但她24小时内发了一封英文致谢+简短自我复盘，两周后收到招生官邮件：‘我们正在考虑一名替补，你是否仍有兴趣？’
? 拒绝后回复的3个黄金法则
- ✅ 法则一：24小时内回应，别拖 瑞士人讲究效率，越早回复越显尊重。哪怕只是简单一句‘Thank you for the update, I truly appreciate the time taken to review my application.’也会留下好印象。
- ✅ 法则二：不质疑，只表达感谢和开放态度 别说‘我觉得我比录取的人更优秀’这种话！换成：‘I understand the competitive nature of the program and remain very interested in future opportunities, such as exchange programs or research assistant roles.’
- ✅ 法则三：留个‘钩子’，方便后续联系 加一句：‘If there are any feedback on my application, I’d be grateful to learn how I can strengthen it for next year.’ 这句话让对方知道你是成长型思维，不是情绪化选手。
? 实用Tips：亲测有效的两句话模板
通用版：I sincerely appreciate the opportunity to apply and thank you for your consideration. While I’m disappointed, I remain deeply interested in [School Name] and hope to stay connected for future academic initiatives.
想冲第二年：If possible, I would greatly appreciate any feedback to improve my profile for the next application cycle. I plan to reapply and am committed to strengthening my qualifications.
✨ 小心机提示：发送后3天内，悄悄在LinkedIn上关注该校招生官或相关教授，保持‘低频但可见’的存在感，来年再申成功率提升30%！
恭喜您，成功提交！
