"发了三封邮件没回,是教授太冷淡?还是我开头那句‘Hey man’惹的祸?"
⚠️ 别让‘随便聊聊’毁了你的学术关系
刚来温哥华时,我给助教发了个 Facebook 私信:‘Hey bro,作业能拖一天不?’——结果三天没回,还被TA在课上点名补交。
后来才明白,在加拿大,哪怕私信也分“熟人模式”和“正式通道”。学术沟通永远默认走后者。哪怕是脸书、Instagram 或微信群问课业,第一句就得是:
Hi Professor Chen, I hope you're doing well. I'm writing to ask about the deadline extension for Essay 2…
? 社交平台评论也有‘潜规则’
UBC 教授公开了一个研究帖,你在下面评论‘cool!’,没问题;但如果写‘这数据不对吧?’——小心!加拿大学术圈重视质疑,但更看重方式。
- ✅ 正确姿势:‘Thank you for sharing — could you clarify how the sample size was determined?’
- ❌ 踩坑示范:‘You messed up the stats lol’
- ? 细节注意:多伦多大学的学生群规定,任何课程相关讨论必须带#AcademicInquiry标签,否则管理员会删除
? 私信三大‘保命口诀’
| 场景 | 推荐表达 |
|---|---|
| 请求推荐信 | I’ve learned a lot in your class and would be honored if you could support my application. |
| 问作业细节 | Could you help me understand the expectations for the methodology section? |


