你是不是也经历过：凌晨收到新加坡国立或南洋理工的offer，激动得差点叫出来，结果爸妈一算学费+生活费，立马从‘冲鸭’变成‘缓缓吧’？ 别慌，拒录不是翻脸，关键是怎么说。
? 模块一：语气要软，立场要稳——模板长这样
千万别直接回个‘我放弃’就完事。新加坡高校很重视礼节，建议用‘感谢+肯定+婉拒+祝福’四段式结构。
Dear Admissions Team,
Thank you so much for offering me a place in the Bachelor of Business Administration programme. I was truly honored to be selected by NUS.
After careful consideration, however, I’ve decided to pursue my studies in a different academic environment that better aligns with my current personal circumstances.
I sincerely appreciate your time and support throughout the application process. Wishing you and the university continued success!
Best regards,
Li Ming
? 模块二：避开这些雷区，别让未来后悔
- ❌ 不要说真话到扎心：别说‘你们学费太贵了’或‘我觉得SMU排名不如悉尼’，哪怕是真的也不能写。
- ❌ 不要拖延回复：新加坡学校通常给10-14天确认期，拖到最后才拒，会被记入系统影响后续申请。
- ✅ 可以暗示后续计划：加一句“I may consider applying again in the future”留个后路，他们真的会记得你。
真实案例：去年有个学生小琳，拿了NTU计算机offer但最终选择香港科大，她用了上面模板并加了句“hope to contribute to ASEAN tech development someday”，半年后申请NTU交换项目，招生官居然认出她邮件还夸“you have great manners”！
? 模块三：邮箱细节决定成败
| 项目 | 正确做法 | 错误示范 |
|---|---|---|
| 邮件标题 | [Application ID] Offer Decline - Li Ming - BBA | “I don’t want the offer” |
| 称呼 | Dear Admissions Office / Dear Prof. Tan | Hi bro / To whom it may concern |
拒完offer后，顺手在LinkedIn关注该校招生官和学院账号——下次申奖学金或暑期项目，人家一眼就认出你是‘有礼貌的老朋友’！
恭喜您，成功提交！
