手握澳洲名校offer却突然不想去？别慌，不是只有硬着头皮注册这一条路——关键是怎么拒绝得体，不伤关系、不留黑历史。
✅ 拒绝第一步：邮件模板拿捏‘感谢+明确+简洁’节奏
别写‘我再想想’，也别已读不回。澳洲校方最烦模糊回复。正确姿势是：当天发正式邮件，比如这样：
Dear Admissions Team,
Thank you sincerely for offering me a place in the Master of Digital Media program at University of Sydney. I truly appreciate the opportunity.
After careful consideration, I’ve decided to pursue another academic path that aligns more closely with my current goals.
I wish you and the incoming cohort all the best. Thank you again for your time and support.
Kind regards,
[Your Full Name]
Thank you sincerely for offering me a place in the Master of Digital Media program at University of Sydney. I truly appreciate the opportunity.
After careful consideration, I’ve decided to pursue another academic path that aligns more closely with my current goals.
I wish you and the incoming cohort all the best. Thank you again for your time and support.
Kind regards,
[Your Full Name]
重点：不提“钱少”“太远”“听说课难”，只说“目标调整”——既真实又不失分寸。
✅ 时间节点卡准：这些时间点错过=留案底
澳洲院校对“放鸽子”挺敏感，尤其八大。关键时间红线你得记牢：
- 押金截止前48小时：如果你交了留位费（通常$5k-$7k AUD），要在退款窗口关闭前通知，UTS和RMIT通常只给7-14天无理由退。
- COE发放前：一旦学校开出COE（留学签证必备），再去拒录会被标记为“withdrawn applicant”，影响后续签证审核印象分。
- 开学前3周：太晚取消可能影响宿舍解约条款，墨尔本大学校外公寓曾有学生因迟退失联，被扣$1,200清洁费。
✅ 高阶操作：保持联系≠白拒，还能换推荐信
拒归拒，但可以埋个伏笔：
| 动作 | 小心机 |
|---|---|
| 结尾加一句：“If future opportunities arise, I’d be honored to reapply.” | 暗示非永久放弃，招生官可能备注“high-potential candidate” |
| 单独联系导师：“Though not proceeding this term, I remain deeply interested in your work on sustainable urban design.” | 后续申请可秒拿推荐信，QUT有导师为此专门发过内推码 |
亲测有效Tip：用学校edu邮箱发拒信，别用微信或Gmail！昆士兰大学内部系统会记录通信来源，使用个人邮箱会被视为“非正式沟通”，处理延迟超一周。
另一个细节：英文名和申请一致，签名加上Student ID，让对方秒定位你的档案，减少来回确认的时间成本。
恭喜您，成功提交！
