你是不是也收到了荷兰某所大学的offer，心里却犯嘀咕：'去吧，专业方向不太对；拒吧，怕以后还想申咋办'？别慌，亲测能拿捏的“优雅说不”指南来了！
✨ 先点赞，再婉拒：把感谢写在第一句
荷兰人做事直接但重礼节，邮件开头一定要先表达感谢。
比如：'非常感谢贵校给予我环境科学硕士项目的录取机会，评审团队的专业和高效让我印象深刻。' 这句话一出，对方立刻感受到你的尊重——毕竟他们花了几周审材料、安排面试。
? 给个真实但不伤人的理由，别甩锅
- 推荐理由：研究方向微调。例如：'经过进一步评估，我决定专注城市可持续发展分支，而贵校的课程更侧重生态建模'——既说明专业匹配问题，又暗示你是认真考虑过的。
- 避雷踩坑：别说'我觉得学费太贵'或'阿姆斯特丹冬天太冷'——这类个人偏好容易让对方觉得你不严肃。
? 邮件模板长啥样？亲测有效的结构
主题：Withdrawal of Acceptance - [Your Name] - Master in Environmental Science
Dear Admissions Committee,
Thank you sincerely for offering me admission to the Master’s programme in Environmental Science at TU Delft. I truly appreciate the time and care invested in reviewing my application.
After careful consideration, I have decided to pursue a programme with a stronger focus on urban climate adaptation, which aligns more closely with my current research interests. This was not an easy choice, as your programme is highly respected.
I respectfully withdraw my acceptance and hope to stay connected for future opportunities. Wishing you a successful academic year.
Warm regards,
[Your Full Name]
[Student ID]
Dear Admissions Committee,
Thank you sincerely for offering me admission to the Master’s programme in Environmental Science at TU Delft. I truly appreciate the time and care invested in reviewing my application.
After careful consideration, I have decided to pursue a programme with a stronger focus on urban climate adaptation, which aligns more closely with my current research interests. This was not an easy choice, as your programme is highly respected.
I respectfully withdraw my acceptance and hope to stay connected for future opportunities. Wishing you a successful academic year.
Warm regards,
[Your Full Name]
[Student ID]
? 亲测提示：发完邮件后，记得在LinkedIn上关注该校教授或项目主页——未来换方向还能重新联系！
恭喜您，成功提交！
